OTTAWA — Nancy Payne is set to honor the memory of her son, Cpl. Randy Joseph Payne, on Remembrance Day by laying a wreath at the National War Memorial as the national Silver Cross Mother. This significant event will mark her first time representing mothers of Canadian soldiers who have died in combat on such a prominent stage, although she has been laying wreaths locally since 2006.

Each year since the tragic loss of her son in Afghanistan, Payne has participated in her local Remembrance Day ceremony in Lansdowne, Ontario. Historically, her husband, David Payne, who dedicated 30 years to the Canadian Armed Forces infantry, has attended the larger ceremony in neighboring Gananoque. The Paynes strategically divide their efforts to ensure they can engage with different communities on this day of remembrance.

This year, the couple plans to attend the ceremony together in Ottawa, where Nancy will fulfill the role as the national Silver Cross Mother on November 11. This title is conferred annually by the Royal Canadian Legion, emphasizing the honor bestowed upon her representing all Canadian mothers who have lost children in military service.

Randy Joseph Payne served as part of the military's close protection team, which was responsible for safeguarding prominent figures, including the prime minister and the chief of defence staff. Tragically, on April 22, 2006, Randy was killed when a roadside bomb struck their armored vehicle while returning to Kandahar Airfield. This incident claimed the lives of four soldiers and became known as one of the deadliest attacks on Canadian Forces in four years.

At the time of the attack, Randy was protecting Brig.-Gen. David Fraser, who had left the unit just the night before. Nancy recalled how the Taliban may have believed that Fraser was still in the vehicle, leading to the attack on innocent lives instead. Their devastating loss is a stark reminder of the sacrifices made by military families.

As she prepares for the upcoming week filled with commemorative events in Ottawa, Nancy has expressed a mix of nervousness and honor at being chosen for this role. She humbly acknowledges the significance of representing all mothers across Canada who have experienced similar grief. Her sentiment reflects a shared sense of community and support among military families, as she emphasizes her surprise and appreciation for being selected.

In a light-hearted tone, Nancy noted her nerves about the busy week ahead, joking about no longer being young. However, she is resolute in her mission to honor her son's memory and represent those who have made the ultimate sacrifice. This year's ceremony will not only serve as a memory for her son but also be a moment of unity for all those mourning their loved ones.

The ceremony at the National War Memorial will hold profound significance as Canadians come together to remember and pay tribute to the sacrifices that have been made in service to the country. Nancy's presence as the Silver Cross Mother underscores the lasting impact of these sacrifices and the importance of remembrance across the nation.